Christians: Is a marriage ever not in God’s will?
Question by Tristan Robert Due March 20: Christians: Is a marriage ever not in God’s will?
(Mark 10:9) Therefore what God yoked together let no man put apart. To make a long story very, very short…my husband out of the blue decided that he wants a divorce. We have been going through some things, nothing major, but some things nonetheless. To say I am heartbroken, confused, and angry would be the understatement of the year. Also, is it possible to try too hard to save your marriage? I don’t want to feel like Im imposing on him. How can I know when I have done all I could do to try and save my marriage? Talking to him, is like talking to a wall! I get no respone from him, just a deaf ear. Also, he is deployed with the Air Force, and has been for 11 months now. He asked me for a divorce in March. I am very much involved in the church, and some of it’s ministries. I’m not just an Easter and Christmas church goer. I read the word everyday, but the answers are just not coming to me. I just want to make sure I am doing the Christian thing.
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Answer by Ben Yeshua (son of our Savior)
So sad for you, Tex:
That happens, and is one of Satan’s tools to pull you away from the truth.
Through the years I have watched many women barter their faith on a cheap marked. Their husband will threaten them with divorce unless they “chippy up”, lay their high calling in the gutter, and play the prostitute for them.
If you have made your confidence supreme in God, and can follow Him unflinchingly, He has a better plan for you.
However, let me suggest that you not provoke the issue, but remain loving and unargumentative. If you do lot live as God has requested, you may be the guilty party in this, as many women have sadly learned in serial marriages–they have not learned to turn the other cheek.
Heaven is a real place, and keep your eyes on Jesus and that goal. There the servant is better and the bold will disappear like the morning frost.
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Shalom, peace in Jesus, Ben Yeshua
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You don’t have to get married . Jesus didn’t get married and neither did Paul
Forgiveness is key. You will see it much better after you forgive yourself and him. Life is for learning to better serve. We can serve best when there is love.
Sometimes marriage is not Gods will but we do have the free will to choose what to do.
pray about it, and work as hard as you possibly can to save your marriage. Remember, if you remarry after you divorce him, you will be an adulterer
According to Jesus the only acceptable reason for divorce is adultery. Also, if one of you is a believer and the other is not then you can seperate but I don’t know if you can divorce. The issue is that if you divorce for any other reason and then remarry you will be living in sin with your new spouse.
No way… God directs all the marriage and swinger’s traffic…
Believe it or not, the Bible God is very much responsible for who gets what girl for a wife! In fact, God is known to take the wife away from a husband and give her to other MEN (plural)!
Jeremiah 10:10a (NIV) Therefore I* (*God) will GIVE THEIR WIVES TO OTHER MEN and their fields to new owners.
2 Samuel 12:8 (NIV) I* (*God) gave your master’s house to you* (*King David), and YOUR MASTER’S WIVES* (ex-King Saul’s wives) into your arms. I gave you the house of Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more (More wives yet! Wow!).
King David got Bathsheba pregnant and got her husband killed to take her all for himself in spite of the fact that King David already had many wives. God was King David’s personal pimp and God didn’t like what King David did on his own!
2 Samuel 12:11-12 (NIV) This is what the LORD says: “Out of your own household I am going to bring calamity upon you. Before your very eyes I WILL TAKE YOUR WIVES AND GIVE THEM to one who is close to you, and HE WILL LIE WITH YOUR WIVES in broad daylight. You did it in secret, but I will do this thing in broad daylight before all Israel.” (Done! 2 Samuel 16:21-22) BTW… Bathsheba was King David’s favorite wife… she was the Greatest Great Grandma of Jesus! AND SHE IS HAVING SEX NOW WITH SOMEBODY ELSE (a God given third stud! Woopie!!! No wonder the girls cry so much for God in the X rated movies!)
God loves a DAY CLUB setting in full public view without any age restrictions! Private NIGHT CLUBS for adults only are of the Devil! God will never force anybody to sin… so ladies, enjoy all you can IT IS ALL ON GOD…! JUST DON’T BE SHY!!! In the case of King David’s wives God changed their husbands at least 3 times! Isn’t God so wonderful? I know that some of you have a successful marriage, but please be nice with the wives of poorly performing husbands. Some of these Christian ladies wouldn’t stop praising the LORD for a change or the hope of a change! Amen?
BTW… You should know that King David was already married to Michal the daughter of King Saul (1 Sam 18-19). So when God passed all the wives of King Saul to King David he became automatically married to Michal’s mother, too! Isn’t God so wonderful for the Christian!!! God is not a “respecter of persons” and he “never changes” so with the Bible God’s approval a man of God can be married to the mother and her daughter at the same time! The Bible allows you all kinds of excesses. The Christian is limited only by the secular morality that is prevalent at the moment the rest can be done in the closet! The clergy is hiding all this facts from the general public! What Jimmy Swaggart did with that hooker was nothing unusual. The Bible flip flops a lot on moral issues! Most people writing the Bible were not different from you and I except that they lived back then when hardly anybody heard of CNN