DO YOU THINK MARRIAGE COUNSELING CAN SAVE MARRIAGES?

Question by sexy momma: DO YOU THINK MARRIAGE COUNSELING CAN SAVE MARRIAGES?

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Answer by jrjordan
Actually, you might be asking the wrong question. It is kind of like asking, “Can working out at the gym work?” Or, “Working out with a personal trainer, does it work?” The answer depends on so many variables, but the success mainly depends on your spouse and especially you. Simply going to a gym and even listening to a great personal trainer like Jillian or Bob from “The Biggest Looser” will not help you if you both do not put in the effort it takes.

You might want to be asking, “Marriage counseling, do we want to (or can we) put in the effort to save our marriage?” You do not need to be the world’s most educated and trained marital therapist to know what makes a relationship work. The frequent reason couples have trouble is because they may become more “me” focused and it’s hard to break out of that. A marital therapist helps you to focus on your spouse, which is the thing on which most successful couples focus.

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