I want to save my marriage wife want divorce….?
Question by Aman Sharma: I want to save my marriage wife want divorce….?
I’m Indian and Married to Romanian (Girl). We used to work in same company but on different locations and fall in love, it was kind of distance relationship..but something unbelievable. Almost 6 months we talked like this way and then decided to marry..She reached to India and we married. As our decision was to stay in Romania I accompany her there…In the beginning things were beautiful but gradually sweet turned in to sour…I take all responsibility as I was scared for my career…cause of global economy downfall I could get no job in Romania. Whenever I try talked about on this matter to my wife she got upset….she always said there are many people jobless don’t worry I am with you..but my esteem was not allowing me to sit back and peruse life on my wife’s salary…my biggest frustration not was, I have no job but I could do nothing for her….whenever we used to go out I could buy nothing for her and I always felt so bad, being a husband I was not able to do what I need to (take care of her by all means) it pinched me always…..
I stood in Romania For 8 months, then we mutually decided we shift to India, but she added she will come after 4 months…till I settle down. I reached India but my desperation keep on rising….one night I was talking to my wife and she made me feel she does not have time for me always…but want time for herself…I got too much angry and we fall in to fight….I could not control myself and asked her if you are not happy with me then take divorce and be happy and hang up the call. Next morning when I apologies to her but she listen nothing and asked for her space.
She said she is confused and want to stay married but want to see herself next to the person who deserves her, and If I am the one god help me. Being Indian I knew nothing about this space thing and keep on arguing her to forgive me. Last time when we talked …she added….
I don’t see u as a husband
I have affection for u like for a person I care about but not like for a counterpart
and the love i had for you gone with time as you made me enough of cry…
Now its almost 21 days we haven’t talked, I don’t know what to do….she asked me to move on but I want to save my marriage as she mean everything for me.
Please suggest me best possible.
4 days ago
Whenever we fought she forgave me, saying doesn’t matters who makes mistake I must sorry her and hug her….that I faild to do so…:( I am not able to forgive myself for all I caused, her pain kills me
when I said to her last time “look I come romania very soon not to disturb you but I’ll soon get a job there…”
she replied..
“dont even dare, stay where u are, if u dont wanna get in mess, cause i’ll make sure u get in a mess if u bother me more.
i move to france and u can enjoy life in romania.”
She says her parents feel shame she married to an Indian…
After giving her 3 weeks space I tried to talk to her…..
and she replied
“i will have to solve the papers
it would have been useful if you could arrange that cause it will cost me a lot of money which i dont have now
but if it’s not possible, i will ask my parents to do this”
She does not want to talk…
Is it this divorce cannot be stoped…????
How I keep lines of communication open, when she does not want to talk….
Best answer:
Answer by Dianne
Marrying someone you never even met and from a different culture was always going to be a massive gamble.
It’s probably best to just let her go. If she wants to divorce let her serve papers on you, otherwise just leave it for a while at least.
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Don’t give up, your marriage problems can be solved. I read lots of books on the subject when we were having problems.
You can read the blog about it here
http://bit.ly/aQPgLg
if you want to check it out.
I hope that things work out for you. After reading a few of these books, I ended up saving my five year marriage.