My husband had affair for 2yrs BUT, now wants to save marriage. Should I “demand” PROOF the affair is over?
Question by Starla: My husband had affair for 2yrs BUT, now wants to save marriage. Should I “demand” PROOF the affair is over?
Do you think this is the least he could do to reassure me he isn’t still with this woman that made my life hell? In fact, He didn’t actually say it was over he just said “he wanted us to save our marriage”
Are there any tough questions for me to ask him? Obviously, he will lie so should I contact “this woman” to see if he really ended it? Or will she just lie as well? How would I now for a fact and what is proof that it’s over between them?
I don’t want to waist anymore of my life.
I want to work it out for our kids but, my heart tells me I need to “Be Sure” He was with HER for 2 yrs of our marriage!
Best answer:
Answer by Danielle B
then don’t waste your life leave him and end it. you never know if he’ll do it again. once a cheater always a cheater.
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So you think your kids are better off having 2 parents who are together, but the father is a dirty cheat and the mother is his doormat?
Set an example for your kids, and respect yourself!
PS. The woman didn’t make your life hell – your husband did.
And if you can’t trust that he will tell the truth, why are you still with him?
I know you don’t want to believe it but I think he will do it again. He may stop for a while but it will happen again. I was the OW and didn’t know he was married. When his wife found of he cut off all contact. Well now after 7 months, he is calling, stalking, and won’t leave me alone. I would never be with him again.
I think next time he will be very careful in not getting caught. Good luck!
Do not waste your time….
Start a new life with your kids, be happy, enjoy the world, raise them with your example of integrity.
If you have a daughter think of the message you would send her by accepting him back….that cheating is not that bad….