My wife wants divorce. She is seeing someone. I am 50. She is 42. Son 18. I want to save marriage. Please Help?
Question by your fan: My wife wants divorce. She is seeing someone. I am 50. She is 42. Son 18. I want to save marriage. Please Help?
We are married for 23 years. She do not respect my parents, friends, guests etc. We both are self employed. Most of our properties are on joint names. I saved this marriage 16 years back as my son was only 2 years that time. She told me to marry somebody else. I do not think 50 is an age to marry again. Please give me some good advice or address of help organisations. Thanks.
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thanks for all the details…….but i’m gonna go out on a limb and just tell you to get a divorce.
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When you change everything else around you changes. Really soak that concept in (even is she is wrong) if you change she will defenitly change also.
Divorce her.
1) try to save the marriage – maybe talk to your priest/minister if you’re religious or a counselor
2) 50 isn’t to old to get remarried… but you’ve both got a hell of an “investment” in your marriage…
Liar! No woman can get a boyfriend after 40. This can’t be true.
It takes 2 to make a marriage. It sounds as tho you lost her 16 years back. I would probably seek the advice of a good divorce attny. You could have much financial loss as well.
Bob, get a life……
Yes you can marry again at the age of 50 (and even older). She broke your marriage vows. Time to split the goodies and say bye bye. Just think of all the hot young girls you can date now!
i think you should let go.. your son is also grown up to take care of himself..
i’m sure you will bw able to find someone to share the rest of your life with..
all the best.. and happy new year..
Sorry, this is a pattern with her and you must think of yourself. She is not marriage material as she has been clear on and you need to get rid of this woman and meet new people and find real love not sham love. She is bad news and you can and will do much better. You have no marriage to save.