Please help me STOP my DIVORCE?
Question by MC_help: Please help me STOP my DIVORCE?
Weve been together 10 yrs and seperated for 2 1/2 yrs. We have a lovely 3 year old. We have been seeing each other with our kid every weekend and seems like things are going to work out. But recently, he said let’s file our divorce papers. I really want to save this marriage, especially with our child. It was my fault, I cheated on him before we seperated. Please help. He said to file the papers 3 times already but never did recently. How can I prevent it. Despearately need help.
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Answer by Miss Zora
Have you tried counseling? Seems like he is trying but is remembering what caused the rift and it’s bothering him enough to not want to get back together. Have you told him heart to heart that you are sorry and that you want your marriage to work (not just for the child, but for him too)? If he wants to file the papers, let him. He may be saying this to see what your response is, or just to make you hurt –like he did when you cheated. Try talking to him and see if he will agree to counseling.
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the only thing you can do is to PROVE to him that you really want the family. use your heart and actions, let him feel that in his heart before it is too late, not by telling and keep telling.
guess he can’t let go on your mistake made, you need extra effort here.