Q&A: Marriage & Divorce — help me to save my marriage from my wife’s nature. I am more worry about my kids.?
Question by patel: Marriage & Divorce — help me to save my marriage from my wife’s nature. I am more worry about my kids.?
I have been married for 11 years. I have 2 kids. Both are under 8. Our life was good up to 8 years but after that my wife’s nature has been changed. First thing she doesn’t like my mom, dad and sister. Even if my parents do babysitter and most of the food preparation she always fight with them but I knew that my Wife is first to me then my parents so I have send my parents back to my country. Even if my parents call my house she always told me to insult them. Also if I call them then she always fight with me so I stop calling them.
Besides that my wife always tont me like you are dum,you don’t know how to happy me,she always bring issue of money in every topic like…because of more money you do this. She always told me that you are not capable of getting new good job even I work as a engineer and making more than $ 100000.She always working like boss and when ever we fight she never say sorry. I have to say sorry every time. Even if we both work I do more things then her.Pls Help me.
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Answer by crazy8eddie
You should both should see a marriage counselor. You most likely aren’t communicating well. Culture filters may be the problem. You need to learn to “fight fair”. A simple rule when you communication is to talk about how you feel. Not about what she does, but your feelings. Try not to use you when you talk to her, but rather say: “I feel bad when.. (event, not what she did, but what happened).
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u need to sit her down and talk to her …… be as calm as ever and just let her kno how u feel ,,, also this is important never let ya spouse seperate u and ya parents if she dosnt like them then thats ok but u shouldnt turn agaunst tem because of her who knos one day she could walk out and leave u then wha u have no one to turn to …. if she never says sorry then thats not good next time any thing happen dont do any thing u are goinng to have to apoligize for that way u wouldnt have to say sorry …… she dosnt kno shae has a good man its just time just try and make it work though