Q&A: What is a good way to save a marriage without going thru counseling?
Question by pinky05: What is a good way to save a marriage without going thru counseling?
Best answer:
Answer by brian k
go through counseling, it’s obvious that a crisis is brewing or you wouldn’t be on this board thinking and asking about it.
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COMMUNICATION TO ONE ANOTHER.
It depends what your problems are of course. If you can make some rules that include respecting each other, don’t make critical comments ever, and stop yelling that will be a start.
Come to some common ground and agree to conpromise on what he wants and what you want.
Talk, Communicate, share. Try to remember what brought you together.
A counselor will suggest the same thing. Communication is key. Plus whatever he/she is doing to make you mad. Let it roll off you back.
Trust me it works
Lots & Lots Of Great Sex, Spice It Up, Visit Victorias Secret, And Give Him A New Way Of Looking At You.
communication with each other
If its at that point
its to late
just adjust to the missery
if you want to stay in the relationship
Counseling is the best way.
In order to fix things as a couple, both parties need to learn and grow. Only a trained therapist knows how to effectively work through all kinds of problems. They know how to approach the topic, because they are an objective 3rd party. They know how to promote discussion and extract information that normally is too private or embarassing.
Counseling requires pride to be checked at the door. Communication is crucial…if you’re not willing to admit you guys need help, then you’re likely to cycle your behavior until the destroys your marraige.
COMMUNICATING WITH EACH OTHER!