what does it take to save a marriage from divorce? he left 6 months ago but wants to come home after filing?
Question by thrftstrprincess: what does it take to save a marriage from divorce? he left 6 months ago but wants to come home after filing?
First of all he is a drug addict who got me hooked on the same drug. He stated that he wants to quit but that the only way he can do that is by coming home and getting away from his roommate who influnces him into doing cocaine and freebase. he also promise to be helpfull around the house and be more productive in our marriage….however all i have heard in the last 9 months is words but I have not seen any actions. How do i know that i can trust him again to get clean, be productive, loving, not controling, and trust in me.
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Answer by Hi its me again
you don’t need his bad influence in your life.
keep him gone
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Action speaks louder than words.
He can clean up his act only if he wants to. You could make that priority #1 before you get back together.
You can start “dating” again to see if he can be more loving before he moves back in.
If you do let him move back,you will find out if he is willing to help around the house or not and both of you will need to work on your marriage together and if he is controlling or not.
I don’t think you will ever fully trust him again and if he breaks any of the terms of saving the marriage,you can always file for divorce and kick him out of your life.