Whats up with everyone wanting a divorce these days?
Question by Ash C: Whats up with everyone wanting a divorce these days?
I am just curious what makes all these people want a divorce? I see it all over the place, TV, radio, on here, interent. I am not knocking it by all means but i have only been married 2 years and you guys are starting to scare me LOL!!!! I understand that some people just cant make it work but are they/ you just jumping straight to divorce or are you/they doing EVERYTHING in your power to save your marriage. I know personally marriage can be hard (example, hubby and i got married after only dating for 6 months, 6 months later i had a baby preterm and she died 5 weeks after that (no sympathy please just an ex) and boy did we fight and leave and cry and scream and blame each other and so on, then 3 months later we took in his AWFUL friend bc he was getting a divorce and he screwed us, then after that his mom went to prison, yes lol prison (embezzlement) he is a good guy so no judgements please, anywho then we took in his little sister 17 yrs old and finished putting her through school, then 2 miscarriages, its been crazy and hectic from day one. I know for a fact most marriages dont survive the loss of a child and we did and had barely been married 6 months. And like i said i am not knocking divorce i believe in it- and he doesnt but i am just so curious what leads people to divorce after building a life together… isnt it worth trying to save? 
I forgot to add and someones response made me think of it… there are DEF good reasons to divorce!!!
One more edit, LOL, some of you have said that we have been through alot and are still here…I cant imagine leaving my hubby he is great and wonderful and through all our drama the key was communication and trust and understanding.. and think we were only 22 and 23 when we lost our girl so we were young and NOT once did we think of divorcing we love each other… for bettter or worse!
Best answer:
Answer by iNSTiNCT_
Don’t Know
Who cares.
It’s not my life so screw it
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People get divorces because they fail to understand that marriage is a team thing. The world, such as t.v, media, self-help books, etc promote selfishness. I want to also say I think it is amazing that you are with your husband still after all you two have gone through. I feel you have nothing to worry about if the two of you made it through so much *hit already. In all honesty, selfishness, miscommunication, or zero communication causes all the divorces. People victimize themselves so much they can no longer tell when they have some fault in it so they rationalize why they cheat, fight, or just divorce. Sorry for the rant just felt it as the best way to answer your questions. People are lazy as well and that is why they do not try, it gives them a reason to find someone else who they think will solve their problems.
Wow…you’ve had some life experience. Divorce is more accepted today because the media has led the charge.
If you review movies and TV shows by the decade, you will see radical shifts if what is average, taboo, and emerging. “All in the Family” was a groundbreaking show because it talked about racism on TV.
Nearly 1/2 of all mainstream movies now depict an non-nuclear family. Is that Hollywood’s perception of reality or did they create a culture for acceptance?
Sorry you’ve had some difficult times. You’ve been married 2 years. Wait a little longer and see how it works out before you praise what you have. No one gets married expecting things to end in divorce. Divorce is just too easy to get now and people don’t want to make the effort. One day you may be seeing things the same way. Let’s hope not.
Lack of patience………..I believe
Most people can’t be bothered to be faithful these days. People are told they should have whatever they want whenever they want. People see their spouse as disposable because they don’t get attached like they would if they abstained from flirting with others, oggling others, watching pornography. It all takes away from the emotional closeness a couple can form, making their bond weak and disposable.