Wives you catch your husband cheating & want to save your marriage but, he doesn’t want to end it w/his lover?
Question by Daddy’s Girl: Wives you catch your husband cheating & want to save your marriage but, he doesn’t want to end it w/his lover?
I am the other woman and the wife of the man I’m having an affair with found out 7months ago. He and I continue to date and he says he has no intention of ending our relationship and states she is aware he feels this way. The wife contacted me twice and acknowledges he wants to continue affair. I know this isn’t morally right and even worse he lied to me about being married. We are all accountable in this triangle but, please help me – I do love him and by his wife’s own admission he stated he loves me and will not end our affair. I know he should divorce and if not I will leave but, what is her position and accountability given the information she has?
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Answer by Bimmergirl
If i were his wife i would dump the jerkass out in the street… and you, what do you see in this guy? he is a liar, he will very well do the same thing to you and cheat on you with another woman. Have some respect for yourself and leave the jerk. He wants to have you both and possibly other women in his life, player!!…
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Why would you want to date another woman’s husband? Her position is, she has invested herself in this man and they made vows with each other! Are you suggesting that she is accountable because she won’t leave her own husband? How would you feel if you were her? You should go find your own man leave hers alone! Also, even if he did leave his wife for you, a cheater is a cheater and your would just be jumping into his wife’s shoes! If he will cheat on her, then he’ll cheat on you! Don’t make the mistake of thinking that he won’t!
she loves her husband, and can u imagine how devastated she is and what this has done to her Psyche and self worth. myself i would never stay with a man who chose to keep the home wrecker, but some woman refuse to give up hope, or their husbands.and because of finances,he can’t divorce either.if he wanted a divorce he would get one, but as long as he can use u and her at the same time why rock the boat or make any changes. he has the whole world at his feet, a wife at home, and a mistress too.