Would you fight to save your sexless marriage during an affair?
Question by Starla: Would you fight to save your sexless marriage during an affair?
My husband of 15 year has been having long term relationship with another woman so we are separated for last year. No sex or intimacy for me. I DO NOT WANT TO DIVORCE because we have had some good years.
Off and on for 15yrs, beautiful kids, husband is devoted father, excellent provider, great savings for future, helps around house and keep the cars maintained.
Yes, he has cheated in the past and we have been separated before and currently we are living apart. My estranged husband is having ongoing affair with same woman for 2yrs and won’t commit to ending their relationship and reconciling marriage.
Due to various circumstances I don’t want to divorce. I still have hope for us working through broken marriage.
Honestly, Is this marriage worth fighting for?
Best answer:
Answer by Guitarist<3
i would be pissed off PERIOD if i found out my lover was cheating on me.
and yes, it is. you’re being a pushover. honestly, how do you feel knowing you’re being cheated on, and doing absolutey nothing about it?
What do you think? Answer below!



I wouldn’t be “fighting” for someone who didn’t want to be with me; I’d rather be alone. But that’s just me.
YOU’RE CRAWLING INTO BED TONIGHT KNOWING HE’S ”DOING” HER, holding her in his arms, talking, kissing, what makes it alright? new tires in the car? the lawn is cut?
think about this, he is giving you the biggest slap in the face he can, are you really brainless?
he is very sexually satisfied while you’re losing out on your marital rights, divorce his worthless ass. you’ll be middle-aged someday, and you threw away your youth.